Love, made a little easier

ToLoveList helps couples turn everyday care into small, meaningful acts — grounded in the five love languages.

The five languages

• Words of Affirmation
• Acts of Service
• Receiving Gifts
• Quality Time
• Physical Touch

How the loop works

Create a task for your partner, they complete it, you confirm, they earn points — and spend them on prizes you set for each other.

Who makes it

ToLoveList is made by Elmer Project, a small, independent team. No ads, no selling your data — just a calmer way to look after each other.